To win, you need to know the game, isn’t it?

Varun Sharma
2 min readFeb 6, 2024

Ever dreamt of being a guitar god, but your fingers just don’t cooperate? Here’s the thing: mastering any instrument, even your own body, requires understanding how it works, right? Think about bodybuilders. They’re all about sleep, food, and how specific exercises impact their performance. It’s the same for us — if we want to truly own our lives, we gotta get to know ourselves inside and out.

This self-mastery stuff? It’s like the ultimate life hack. But here’s the catch: trying to figure ourselves out using our own minds can be a messy business. Imagine analyzing your actions and thoughts — you justify them, right? So, it’s easy to get stuck in a loop of self-doubt and negativity. To break free, we need to counter those downers with love, gratitude, and maybe even a sprinkle of compassion.

Here’s the key: you are NOT your thoughts, feelings, or actions. They’re like temporary roommates, hanging out in your mind space. The problem is, we get attached to them, and that’s when they start controlling us. But, guess what? You can change roommates!

This is where meditation comes in. Think of it like training your mind to be its own observer. You learn its patterns, its sneaky tricks. You can predict where it’s going and steer it in the direction you want.

Can you feel your feet in contact with the floor? can you feel the pressure, the coolness, or the warmth? To answer these questions you had to move your awareness to that part of your body and for a few seconds, that’s the only thought in your mind.
Meditation helps you hold that focus on what truly matters, like tackling that project you’re passionate about. Imagine having laser focus for EVERYTHING — that’s the power of self-understanding!

Remember, this isn’t some exclusive club. Anyone can unlock their best self by understanding themselves. It’s all about practice, patience, and tools like meditation. So, are you ready to become the master of your own destiny?

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Varun Sharma

Fall in love with building products, now learning to make them successful.